I have had no long term trades for the last 3 years. All my long term stuff has been outside the stock market, so my trading has gross income minus gross costs = total profits. Of course my costs included a few things other than commissions and the cost of equities purchased, but not many, even with the Active Trader designation. So I guess my experience is not really relevant to the long term and wash sale rules.
I really am a fan of Turbo Tax, I started using it before they were affiliated with Quickbooks and I used QB from 1995 to 2010 for all my business. In 2010, my business was too complicated for me or QB to handle reporting to all the government entities and sending the appropriate money to them so I used an accountant and gave up QB. A couple of years after the sale of the company when all my finances settled out from it, I went back to TT for my trading taxes. If you set it for step by step instructions for the complete idiot, it's pretty hard to go wrong. I'm sure some of the other outfits that do it are good, but I've used TT since the mid 90's.
Who are the two Men In Black knocking at my front door and why does it say IRS on their car?😱